Do you Have the Valentine Blues? Become Red Hot Here…

Hey Mighty Aphrodite!!

I’m thrilled it’s February.  Yes!  The month of ROMANCE!  Valentine’s Day! Hearts…Roses…Chocolate…yum…

 

And yet for so many of us…it’s a very lonely time too.

It’s cold outside and even if it isn’t, still your bed is cold and your heart is…numb.  Sometimes you feel an ache there.  It goes deep.  And it hurts. You try to ignore it or keep busy with work, your friends, your activities…they’re all great! And you smile because in a way, they make you happy.  But you still feel like something is missing….and dating seems to be so frustrating and fruitless…you feel like there are no good men out there and the ones you want don’t seem to want you…It’s like you’re no further along than you were last year or the year before that or before that…

or maybe you’re in a relationship…

But you feel so distant from your man.  He’s stopped calling you as much. Stopped the Surprises.  Stopped the affection. You try to talk with him about your relationship…. You ask what’s wrong… And it seems like when you do he withdraws even more. So YOU start doing and giving more, trying to please him, giving him affection,  initiating sex, asking what you can do for him… And you’re tired.  You’re frustrated.  You’re pissed and resentful and you’re terrified to say it….because you’re already walking on eggshells and you don’t want to lose him.

Either way,  it just seems hopeless…like nothing could ever change. You’ve already tried so much already.  And it hasn’t worked.

All you know is you want more.  You want love.  You want the relationship of your dreams!

I want you to ask yourself…

Where are you right now in dating and relationships?

Whatever your situation is