Are you a woman who compares herself?

There’s NAmandalegacyphotoshoot2O need to compare with other women.

1. You’re INCOMPARABLE
(meaning that your essence and the combination of your gifts/interests/ideas/traits is TOTALLY unique!)

2. But SHE HAS/ THEY HAVE WANT I WANT!

all those awesome traits that you see in a woman/women that make you angry, jealous, shut down…you have in yourself… you just need to bring them out for YOU, (most especially you) and everyone else to see.

3. How I handle those feelings:

My go to is when i see a woman who has or is being something that I really want, I call it inspiration and MOVE ON! I see it as the world actually supporting me by showing me what it is I’d like to be in a VERY tangible way. which makes it easier for me to envision it for MYSELF. (Thanks!)

4. Did you know? Comparing is actually a VERY masculine trait?

I once sat on a tram with a woman who locked eyes with me (which I love!) but then the look evolved into ‘who can look the longest without turning away” I smiled because in the past I would have been in this to win! (Hands up if you’ve ever done this too! ;-))

But it didn’t matter to me. And what she was showing me was NOT the mark of a truly powerful woman, she was actually showing me how masculine she was.

and I know that’s not who I want to be or who I’m here to be.  What about you?

Sealed with a kiss,

Amanda

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